Gay student dating
A first same-sex experience can either be a wowing confirmation of your emotional attractions, not at all what you expected, or a little bit of both.
Take your time when you're exploring the physical aspects of your sexuality.
It was overwhelming at first, but I was excited to get away from home.
I knew I was attracted to guys; but I was way too scared to explore my feelings so I stayed in the closet for a while.
After months of thinking I was the only one, I ran across a guy in one of my classes who I thought might be gay. I invested a lot of time into trying to figure out if one guy was gay, as if he was my only option.
Tired of having no one to talk with about my sexuality, I did everything I could to befriend him. And while it paid off and I had a new gay friend, I think I should have explored more.
I could have also reached out and befriended more of my dorm friends.
I later found out that they knew other gay people and they could have helped me make a connection.
Don't put all your hopes on one person when you're looking for gay friends on campus. I longed for a boyfriend, especially after I started meeting gay friends.
If you have a roommate or close buddy, give him your schedule and keep him up on where you're traveling around campus, especially at night.
Some people choose to explore same gender sexual experiences while in college.