Dating larger woman
I think physical attraction is very important; but at the end of the day, at the end of life, everyone gets old and ugly. Many men who “don’t like big women” dated me and we had good relationships before I sabotaged them. Not gonna lie, this just turned me on a little lol.
If you are interested in more context, I used to be really skinny and have bad acne.
I share your view about everyone getting old and ugly at some point, so it's kind of like, who cares? Clearly I'm not saying there's anything objectively wrong with being overweight as everyone has different taste.
I just know its something I'm not compatible with.
I didn't date through HS or college, but then my skin cleared up and I got in good shape, and suddenly had all these dating options.
I have been regularly dating for the past 5 years now.
If you feel like you WOULD be attracted to her if she were thinner, don't date her.Don't date her thinking that you might be able to get over this one thing, or that maybe if you suggest it she'll lose weight.Don't let what other people might think about you dating a fat person affect your decision though, or the way that you treat her if you do date, because that's lame. But seriously, if you're attracted to her, go for it.Not gonna lie, I've stood next to her, and thought about what it would be like to have sex with her. You can't lay on a fat girl and fuck her because the angle pulls your dick out unless you have 12 inches to work with!While I wasn't disgusted, I wasn't turned on either. You're left with either doggie or pseudo missionary kneeling in front of her.