Armchair advice dating
There’s the case of 45-year-old armchair general virgins who’re giving advice ranging from approaching women to having healthy relationships.
Or some random 23-year-old kid who finally lands a girlfriend for the first time in his life and somehow feels that he can mentor the entire world on what it is like to approach and date the world’s hottest women.
I also don’t know any guy whose woman left him for a man who was “in touch with his feminine side.” And, I certainly don’t know any man whose woman dumped him because he was so busy with his work that he barely had time to see her instead of some chump who did nothing but worship the ground she walked on. You’re the problem because everything you’ve ever been thought about masculinity was wrong.If you want to get what you want from women—whether it’s a reliable midnight booty call, a great relationship or even marriage—you must adhere to a certain hidden dynamic whether you like it or not. It’s not something that you can “talk about” at the kitchen table with your girl. So, as you can probably guess, the problem isn’t with feminine women. Women don’t want a “buddy” they can “hang out” with.They don’t want a man who they can easily get under the skin and turn into an emotional cesspool.Or, worse, how they got ripped off in Russia or Ukraine by some girl they fell in love with after seeing her once or twice.And then curse the world how all Russian and Ukrainian women are “transactional.”As someone who is originally from Ukraine and has lived in Ukraine for the past five years, I find these stories amusing. But, as hopefully, you’ve learned from a very young age: there’s no free lunch.